Today I discovered why I value support networks. Because I didn’t have a robust one when I was navigating social interactions at school, notably pre-complex diagnoses. Support networks are invaluable. Since support networks can grow, shrink, and change, they can be responsive and adaptable. Adaptability being critical to succeed in any environment.
Support networks can benefit from expanding. For example, when going through a life change (new job/relocation/loss) it can be helpful to talk to people who understand and can provide a safe space to talk. Counselling is a great option, and as private counselling can be expensive, looking for the right accessible counselling is a worthwhile pursuit. Leaning a bit more on trusted people can provide reassurance, boost self esteem and confidence.
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Sometimes it is important to shrink support available. Such as if the support available leads to energy depleting after engagement rather than restorative or energising. Shrinking support is appropriate when the support isn’t quite aligned to need. Having the right support is better than having the wrong support available. Reflect on support and if it’s given the way you want and if not, ditch it and find a better avenue.
Support can change. For example, support at school/uni/work can look different and delivered differently by people trained to different abilities. Being open to this change can increase your chance of being successful in the new situation. Embracing chance and trying to be adaptable can be helpful to progress and reach potential.
Support networks are dynamic. Sometimes contingent due to funding, other times more longer term. Both can be impactful. It’s important to reflect on how impactful the interactions are, especially critically challenging if it is a positive influence.
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